Hey guys,

Many men find getting girl’s phone numbers an incredibly difficult and daunting task. Wouldn’t you like to be able to get a girl’s phone number anytime you want, easily? Sure, we all would.

So here’s how to get girl’s phone numbers in one minute.

Approach them and open directly. Say something along the lines of you had to come meet them because they looked adorable/cute/interesting/fun, whichever you feel best with.

Quickly follow with a time constraint. Maybe you are on your lunch break and will be late back to work. Or, you’re meeting a friend somewhere soon and are late.

Either way, make there be a reason for having to leave soon.

Tease the chick on something situational to make her feel like you are fun and a cool guy to be around. Talk for a little bit about anything that you’d like to. Comment on whatever is around you. The conversation doesn’t have to be incredibly interesting.

After about thirty seconds of small talk, pull out your phone, hand it over to her in a very direct way and say “Put your number in here, I’ll give you a call when I get a bit more time to chat”

It’s very important to command it. It’s like assuming the sale in marketing. You know she’s going to put her number in your phone. There is no doubt. She will go along with it every time.

If you’d like to follow up with this girl’s phone number you should do it within the next twenty minutes, otherwise you will most likely be forgotten and the girl will flake on the call.

Open her with a funny nickname to make her remember you and the feelings she was experiencing during the interaction. “Mall girl! or Food Court Chick!” would work just fine.

That’s it. The 1 minute number close is really that easy. Go try it!

Stay Pimpin’

Kurt Spelling

Hey Guys,

This interesting technique was invented and tested the other night and let me tell you, it passed with flying colors! It left the girl literally senseless and unable to move for fifteen minutes.

If you are looking for a new sexual technique to use that is a bit different and interesting, this is for you.

Start off having sex like you normally would, working your pace up as you go. When you can tell she’s starting to get really hot and into it, that is when you begin this sexual technique.

It involves having her do a little bit of visualizing and will really help get her into body and how she is feeling.

Speak to her confidently and slowly, almost hypnotically. Rhythm your speech with your stroke for extra emphasis.

Tell her to focus on the feeling she is experiencing in her vagina and really embrace it.

Then say “If this feeling was a ball of pulsating energy, located on your vagina, what color would it be?”

She’ll moan something like “Ohhh red” or pink or purple would be the most common.

Tell her to visualize that ball pulsating and increasing in brightness and size as you increase the strength and speed of your stroke.

Keep having her imagine this ball getting brighter and larger, pulsating and faster and more wildly as you continue to increase your stroke.

Tell her that the ball is about to burst and the colored energy is going to spread across her entire body, spreading the feeling she feels right now in her vagina across her entire being.

Tell her to focus on the feeling and let the ball explode as you really lay it to her.

She should have a really powerful orgasm that leaves her dripping and senseless. Awesome!

You may find this hard to perform with chicks who are very ADD, flighty, flaky, or for lack of a nicer word, dumb. They might just say “huh?”

For the majority of women though, this will be a great experience, and will really help immerse them in the amazing feelings you are giving them all over.

Sexual techniques like this will leave women obsessed with you because they link so many positive emotions to you. Powerful orgasms make women addicted to you.

Be careful!

Kurt Spelling

Hey again fellas,

Reflecting back on the last few years, I realize I have changed a lot. I am not the person I once was, and simply knowing that makes me more attractive to women.

Let me explain.

Many men will never stop to reflect on who they are and what they stand for in this world.

What are your morales?

What are your dreams and aspirations?

What are your likes dislikes and standards in personal relations, as well as every other activity you embrace?

Knowing who you are, and more importantly making no excuses for it, is what defines the attractive man.

I know men who I think are assholes, but they get girls. They act the way they do and embrace their reality, their behavior, and who they are as people.

Women don’t want a phony. They want a man with a strong reality and a strong belief in himself.

The attractive man knows what he’s about and follows through on it. The attractive man would never tell a lie to impress a girl, or tailor his actions to the likes of another.

The attractive man knows and loves himself.

Maybe now your thinking “Hey, I DO act like myself, and I never get girls! I can’t be me or I’m doomed to stay a virgin”.

This isn’t true. There are just very minor details of you that maybe need some tweaking. Maybe some negative social conditioning got into certain aspects of your behavior, causing you to not act like an attractive man.

This can all be fixed with a bit of knowledge and a desire to learn, and the attractive man will come out of you faster then you’d believe.

Till Next Time Fellas

Kurt Spelling

Hey again guys,

This could have easily been the first post on this blog, but it just never popped into my head until now.

When you make the decision to get good with women and conquer the dating game, there is a very important first step that you must take. Without this first step, all other steps are pointless, and you will take much much longer to learn how to meet and seduce women.

So what is this important first step?

To conquer the dating game you must define what that means to you. More specifically, what you want to get out of it.

Do you want sex with a different girl every night?

Do you want to meet a special woman who will love and take care of you?

Do you simply want to improve your confidence and charm?

All of these are great reasons to handle this aspect of your life, but which is right for you? Defining what is important to achieve for yourself is the most helpful thing you can do when beginning to this journey. After all, you can’t get where you want to be if you don’t know where that is.

You may not know what you want yet. Some people begin learning how to meet and attract women and their entire goal changes. It’s fine if your goals change, but you must have some to begin with to get the process started.

Open up word pad and write down 5 goals you’d like to achieve in your life as far as meeting women and personal development. Save this file and begin learning and applying everything you can. Check back with it often and edit/update it as necessary.

This will definitely help you speed towards a life full of female abundance and being a man who fully know how to meet, attract, and seduce the women you desire.

Get em’

Kurt Spelling

This has been a question that men have asked for years.

“What are the magical words i can say to a girl to instantly have her interested in me. What is the best pick up line?”

It may blow your mind, but the best pick up line is no pick up line.

Pick up lines do not work. How come?

Well, look at what using a pickup line is saying to he girl. You are coming over to her, and are so interested in her, giving her so much value, that you have to invent a pick up line in hopes of wooing her and winning her approval.

What if she’s not a cool person? What do you know about her besides that she is beautiful?

Beauty is common. There is no reason to give a girl a very high value based solely on the fact that she is beautiful. This is essentially what a pick up line does, and that is why they do not work.

So what is the best pick up line?

“Hi, my name is…” Works great!

Till next time,

Kurt Spelling