Most people get a nervous feeling inside when they are walking down the sidewalk and are about to pass another person. People will look to the side or pull out their phone to avoid eye contact. For some reason in our society, we are all scared of each other. It is because we are all self-conscious.

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Self-consciousness is really “others-consciousness.” You feel weird when passing because you’re thinking (subconsciously or consciously) about what they are thinking about you. The funny part is, since everyone walks around worrying about what others are thinking about them, nobody is actually thinking about you! Sounds confusing I know, but read it over again and it will make sense.

The point is, stop worrying so much what others are thinking about you. Do whatever you feel like doing, no matter what. As long as it doesn’t involve hurting anyone, you have the freedom to do it.

You should never worry about what people will think about you. If they are thinking about you, that’s good - it means you’re doing something right. Especially if they are making negative comments. Haters are just jealous. Not being self-conscious will help to develop your confidence at an accelerated rate.

Soon you will find yourself with the women you desire.

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Enjoy!

Kurt Spelling

For anything you want to achieve in life, desire is the key to succeeding. When you picture the outcome of your goal in your head, it has to fill you with an intense desire to achieve it. Even if a goal is very easy to achieve, if the outcome doesn’t create a burning desire inside you, you will not achieve it.

You have to make sure that all endeavors you pursue fill you with desire and excitement, allowing you to joyfully work towards the end result. When the outcome is truly desirable, work will no longer feel like work. When “work” becomes enjoyable, it is easy to turn it into an every day habit. Working towards your goal every day will help ensure its achievement.

Desire is the flame.

If your goal was to boil a pot of water, a small flame would make it take a very long time. The same is true with anything you want to achieve in life. Have a small flame and you get little or no results. The key to achieving what you want in life is to really figure out what it is that you want. When you figure out what you want, the outcome will feel so desirable that it will be easy to motivate yourself into action.

Take action now by writing a list of things you would like to achieve. Ask yourself what would make you feel good to have accomplished. Picture your life as if you had already accomplished this goal, and how it would be. Use these mental images to get your flame burning on high.

Kurt Spelling

Hey guys ,

A great way to become the man at any bar or club is to become friendly with all the staff that work there. This is easy to do, and will make everyone want to know, “who’s this guy?”

For bouncers, chat them up upon entering and leaving. Make good eye contact and if it’s not very busy have a brief conversation with them. Stories about a girl going wild in the street, or a crazy fight you just saw would be something that would make the bouncers laugh and rememeber you.

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For bartenders, make solid eye contact and speak loudly and clearly. Again, if it is not busy, engage them in brief and interesting conversation. Make sure to tip very well. You will find that tipping well will not only make them remember you, but will have them serving you faster and giving you free drinks.

For managers, talk them up every time you come into the bar. Be respectful and shake their hands. Tell them how much you enjoy their place and all the things you love about it. This will then transition into normal conversation and you will become buddies.

By knowing and shaking hands with the bouncers, managers, and bar tenders of a specific bar or club, you gain their level of status. Girls are experts at tuning into these cues that show men of high status. Even if you do not think they notice, they do. They will want to meet and get to know you just because of this one simple technique.

Enjoy.

Kurt Spelling

Hey Guys,

Something I was thinking about last night while I was out at the bars just popped into my head. Last night, I picked up this girl, even though the club was REALLY loud. I knew she was only hearing half of what I was saying, but I knew it didn’t matter.

Why not?

Because I speak with a deep, resonant, voice.

There are a lot of different aspects that will make you a man who is magnetically attractive to females. One is your voice.

It should be deep, and resonant. When you speak, women should not just be able to hear you, but FEEL you. Your voice should tickle them.

Also, you should speak slowly and rhythmically. This will make women hang on your every word. The slow speech shows that you are a comfortable and confident man. You do not need to rush what you are saying in fear that if you take too long, people might lose interest. You know they will stay hanging on your every word.

There is a few things you can do to practice and ensure that you have these aspects of your voice handled.

First, I want you to take a deep breath, but not the way you normally breath. Breath out every inch of air that is in your lungs, and then breath in until you can’t fit another bit of air in your lungs.

Make sure to breath in so that the bottom of your stomach, near your diaphragm, fills up first and then your chest rises as the rest of your lungs fill.

This is the proper way to breath. Doing this three or four times in a row will make you feel powerful.

It is a technique derived from the Kahunas, the natives of Hawaii. If you’ve never seen them, as a race they tend to have GIANT alpha males, who are solid to the core. This breathing exercise is definitely part of the reason they tend to be this way.

Now that your breathing is corrected, lets warm up your voice.

Take anther deep breath and say the word “wow” but accentuate the “owwwww” for as long as you can, and as deep as you can.

This will help you warm up your vocal chords and allow you to drop into your deep, natural resonant, voice.

Breath in this manner when you are out talking to women, and remember to speak from your belly, not your throat.

This will have women FEELING your voice and getting dangerously turned on.

Enjoy!

Kurt Spelling

Hey All,

This is my first post on my brand new seduction blog. What will you get here?

You will get LOTS of FREE advice on how to meet, attract, and seduce women. You will get daily posts with tons of free quality content. And you will get lots of pictures of hot girls!

Because I love em! And I know you do too, or you wouldn’t even be reading this.
Get ready for a lot of great content!

Kurt Spelling