Hey all,

It’s been a while since I’ve posted much on this blog.  I’ve taken a solid vacation from the Seduction community..spent a while maxin and relaxin in San Diego cali.

Now it’s time to get it goin again!

I recently began my twitter page, so make sure to check me out there at http://www.twitter.com/kurtspelling

And also my youtube channel is about to get a lot more videos posted, so make sure to check me there at http://www.youtube.com/user/HowToSeduceWomenNow

I’ll be updating this place shortly with lots of new advice, photos, things about myself and life, etc, so stay tuned!  Hope you like it!

Kurt Spelling

Hey again fellas!

One thing that many men don’t realize is that in order to win at the dating game you will have to pass womens’ “tests”. Every single woman will test a man, although some women test much less than others.

Women test a man throughout the dating game to ensure that he is a suitable mate. They want to make sure they have a strong man.

So how do you know if a woman is testing you in the dating game?

While there exists literally thousands of small tests a woman will use, knowing these three major ones will give you a huge head start.

1. She asks a lot of questions

Asking a lot of questions is a definite sign of interest, but also a test. If you give up all the information she requests right away, or too easily, you are losing at the dating game.

She will quickly get bored and move on.

Pass this test by challenging her. Don’t always reveal the information she wants right away. Make her guess, make her work for your information. You are valuable and dominant in the dating game, you’ve seen it all before!

2. She tells you to do something

Many men will instantly lose attraction in the dating game by failing this common test. You may be talking about your job as a voice actor with a woman you just met. To test, she’ll say “Oh do your funny voice!”

Many men will be too eager to please and jump right into entertainer mode. You are skilled at the dating game and instead will be challenging with a reply like “Sorry hun I got off at five, but maybe later if you’re lucky” with a sly grin.

3. She presents unacceptable behavior

Many beautiful women will test men in the dating game by offering completely unacceptable behavior and seeing how they react. She may say a rude remark, or do something inappropriate or obnoxious.

Strong men call the woman out, while weak men will just allow it because she is beautiful. She is used to this because most men aren’t skilled in the dating game, and she absolutely hates it!

She wants to be called out and told she’s being rude. Doing this right takes skills and practice, as well as powerful mindsets to ensure she does not affect your reality. This can all be learned in time.

Regards,

Kurt Spelling

Welcome back!

Humor is a great asset to any man who is trying to seduce women because it creates comfort and familiarity between you and the woman.

When using humor as one of your seduction techniques, realize that this alone will not get you the woman. Just being funny will not seduce women, but it really can help.

So how can you utilize humor in your seduction techniques?

1. Twist Her Words

It is always hilarious to twist a girls words, especially in a sexual manner. Then always follow it up by framing it as if she is suggesting the sexuality, and dismiss it. This will keep her chasing you and keep the interaction fun the entire time.

For example, she says “Let’s break it.” You can immediately say “What, lets get naked? God I’ve only known you for an hour, slow down. You have to at least buy me a drink first.”

Do this with a devilish grin and dubious look and she will laugh every time. The best part about using these seduction techniques is it will get her thinking about you in a sexual manner, even through humor. Very good stuff.

2. Everything That Was Funny When You Were Ten, Still Is

There are a few seduction techniques that illustrate this perfectly. For example, try using the gag when you point at a girls chest and say “what’s that?”, then tap her in the nose when she looks down.

You can be sure she hasn’t had a man do this to her since she was ten. And, yup, it’s still funny. Also, you’ve now fooled around with her like most other men have forgotten how. You’re fun. You’re unique.

Seduction techniques like these will keep your interactions fun and sexually charged. Use them to easily develop attraction with humor.

Kurt Spelling

Hey guys,

This is a subject that causes a lot of anxiety for a lot of men. I know how it can feel, I used to be the same way. However, with practice and the proper mindset, you can get over this anxiety and learn how to approach women without worry or self doubt.

When you see a group of beautiful women, do you see this?

Wonderful angels..NO!

That is your first mistake! Women are NO angels!

If you see a beautiful woman and instantly assume that she has a great personality, and is amazing in every way, just because she is beautiful, then you are shooting yourself in the foot. Even I’d be nervous if I knew the woman I was approaching was PERFECT. Luckily, I’ve never met a single girl who is perfect so it makes it easy to know that the beautiful one I’m approaching isn’t either.

This is a habit that many men have. Become conscious of it. If you see a girl and say “oh man she’s so hot, shes perfect she’s amazing” flip it around. Picture her sitting on the couch on a Sunday in her “fat pants” eating a bunch of nachos with cheese and chili, occasionally letting loose a MASSIVE fart.

Realize that beautiful women are just normal people. This alone will show you how to approach women with less anxiety. But, how can you talk to them? What should you say?

When I began to learn how to approach women, I learned a ton of lines and interesting things to say to them. It wasn’t natural. Sure, the girls were interested, but they weren’t interested in the REAL ME. Now, when I approach women, I literally say whatever is on my mind or whatever I would find entertaining at the time.

Here is the catch - 22. You gain a lot of confidence by approaching women and having them react positively (success). But, the confidence I have is what allows me to approach a women and say ANYTHING.

So, here’s how to blast past this catch-22. Take every failure as a success. Every time a girl reacts badly to your approach, you have now learned how to approach women that much better. Every time you do an approach you are getting better and building your confidence.

Also, just relax and have fun! That is why you are at the bar to begin with. Learning how to approach women is fun! Go get rejected on purpose, just to prove to yourself that you can have fun being rejected and that rejection won’t kill you. I’ve done that before too.

Learning how to approach women is more about learning how to have fun. Have a ton of fun and feel great inside. Then just go up to whatever girl you feel is attractive and say “Hi I’m xxxx, you looked fun I had to come meet you.” This, said in a fun, non-needy way is guaranteed to start a conversation.

For a lot more on learning how to approach women, sign up for my E-Seminar “How to Approach Any Woman, Anywhere, Free of Worry or Self Doubt!”. It’s a five day course and is completely free.

Check it out at http://www.learnhowtoseducewomen.com/

See you next time!

Kurt Spelling

Hey All,

This is my first post on my brand new seduction blog. What will you get here?

You will get LOTS of FREE advice on how to meet, attract, and seduce women. You will get daily posts with tons of free quality content. And you will get lots of pictures of hot girls!

Because I love em! And I know you do too, or you wouldn’t even be reading this.
Get ready for a lot of great content!

Kurt Spelling